WOW, well that was an offensive title considering you don't even know me.  Let me ask you a question, "Have you ever had so much anger in your heart toward someone that you were on the border line of hating them?"  I want you to be honest when you answer that question.  I know we like to live in our stain glass churches, hiding behind our pious attitudes thinking we have never hated anyone.  But the reality is when we refuse to love our brother, or hold anger in our heart toward them we live a lie.  Proverbs says, "the one who conceals hatred has lying lips..."  John said it this way, "How can you say you love God and hate your brother?" What I love about God is that He forces us to deal with the feelings in our heart that we hold against others.  I am not saying that people haven't hurt us, nor that people haven't treated us unfairly.  We all have justifiable cause to hold anger toward others, the problem is we are not the ultimate judge...God is.  What God has called us to do is lay aside the injustices of life, and forgive those who have wronged us.  When we put on our Christian face for others and hold anger in our hearts speaking negatively of our brothers and sisters we are liars.  Hey I have been a liar, but I'm willing to admit it.  How about you, are you dealing with your hatred, or are you just continuing to play the game? If you are, you're a liar.